If you’re wondering why your date isn’t going so well, then surely you’ve crossed some sort of line that might have made her to think negatively of you. Asking her out on a date is one thing, but creating a good impression when dating is a whole different thing. There are 3 important attraction-killers that you should bear in mind when dating women.
1) They feel responsible for how you feel.
This is something many have never thought about. The reason most women go on dates is because they want to start afresh and just leave all their bad memories of their past relationships behind. They take risks when going on a date because if things don’t work out, they would risk getting all sorts of texts and calls from the guy they went out with. If the guy starts sending “I miss you so much” texts frequently, this also makes women feel uncomfortable as he is showing signs that he is desperate for the girl and that he is scared of losing her. So, you’ve got to make sure that she knows you are feeling great, even when you are not with her. You also have to stop showing signs that you are nervous because she needs to know that you are feeling good and relaxed with her
2) They feel like they are leading you and not the other way around.
Women love to be spoilt and pampered. They want a man who can lead them and make decisions for them. They want to feel relaxed and they need to know that you have got everything under control and this is important for a relationship to last long. And if it does last, your decision making skill would be one of the important factors they look for because they need to know that you can be the man of the family. So when dating, you should stop asking her which shop she would like to go to, or which color she likes. Instead, you should choose for her and let her know so that if she knows you are leading her. Also if she prefers something else, she would have the choice to voice out which seldom happens as she would be busy admiring you.
3) Feeling under pressure from you.
She will feel under pressure if you touch her way more than she touch you, if you put in more energy into the conversation than she does, if you ask too many questions, or even if you don’t look like you’re having a good time. So, you should give her more space by not pressuring her too much. You should also do stuff according to what you want, not what you feel you should.