Being friend zoned sounds like simple problem, but it is a dilemma to guys who wish to get serious with the girl they really like, or the other way around. It is important to avoid getting friend zoned because it is the very first step to dating a girl. Once she identifies you as a close friend, she will lock her emotions to only maintain being friends with you and cannot go further than that.
That is why it is very hard to get out of the friend zone if you are already best friends with her, and also why you should takes steps to make it right the first time.
1) Physical attraction
Flirting plays a huge role in making her attracted to you. But be sure not to overdo it and only do when you are with her. Clasp her when you are crossing the street, open doors for her when it’s just the two of you, or even sending her to her car so that she’ll realize that she feel special when she’s with you.
2) Being hard to get
Women love the thrill of the chase. If you surrender yourself willingly, she would have to discard you and would most likely look at the next guy who is more interesting.
3) Talk to her when she’s alone
When she’s with a bunch of friends, you can’t really hit on her unless you’re a pro. Talking to her when she’s alone raises up intimacy so make sure you turn on your charm and impress her.
4) Don’t text or call her frequently
Women love surprises. It is important to do something out of the ordinary and not something she can expect. If you text and call her often, she would obviously know that you’re into her and she would even feel annoyed. So, only text or call her to arrange dates or meet ups.
5) Get to action!
Don’t be afraid of rejection. You have every reason to go for her plus there’s nothing to lose. You don’t want to just hover around her without making any move. Follow your heart because only you know when it’s best to do it, and wait for the opportunity.